自稱把家庭放首位的母親嘲笑她是博眼球,沒想到她真的直播了自己的自殺.......

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  親子關係是我們出生後和這個世界的第一個聯結,也每個人一生中最重要的關係。

  這個關係可以是最有力的護持,也可以是最具破壞性的。

  Parent-child relationship is the first connection we have with the world after birth, it is also the most important relationship for everyone. This relationship can be the most supporting connection while it can also be the most damagine one.

  今天在網上讀到一個報道:

I read a story online today:

這個母親在Facebook主頁的自我介紹中說:“學習愛上帝愛自己並適當地愛他人......為家庭而努力是我的第一要務。”(Learned to love God and myself to properly love others... Working on my family is my priority...)

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

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  Rest In Peace 安息

  為什麼,人們總是把愛隱藏起來

  反而更加公開地表達恨意?

  

  更加讓我驚異的是網上讀者的留言, 無疑也更讓我覺得悲哀。

  What surprised me more was the comments and messages left by readers online , and certainly saddened me more

  

  

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  我想,肯定還有更多的受傷的人還沒有走出陰影,受傷害太多,感覺太累,還不可能在這里留言評論。

  I think there must be more wounded out there who cannot step out of their shadows yet, who are too beaten and too tired to make comments here.

  我們真的很難想象。

  We really can't imagine.

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  我了解很多人都或多或少被他們和父母之間的關係損害過,或者說損害

  I know many people were/aremore or less wounded by their relationships with their parents.

  What can we say?

  我們能說什麼呢?

  

  不過,人生的秘密就在於,跌倒七次,就爬起來八次!

  世上無完人,所有的父母也一樣。而且有些比一般都差。

  Nobody is perfect, including all parents. Some are worse than others.

  我們能夠做的,就是改變自己 - - 特別是努力成為更好的父母。

  What we can do is to change ourselves, to be better persons. - and try to be better parents if we have to.

  像撒禮花一樣傳播善良。

  

  confettinoun[U]

  UK/kənˈfet.i/US/kənˈfet̬.i/

  smallpiecesof colouredpaperthat you throwat a celebration,especiallyover two peoplewho have just been married

  (尤指結婚等慶典時拋撒的)五彩碎紙

  冉雲飛:用“愛”扼殺孩子人生幸福的中國父母

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