Parent-child relationship is the first connection we have with the world after birth, it is also the most important relationship for everyone. This relationship can be the most supporting connection while it can also be the most damagine one.
I read a story online today:
這個母親在Facebook主頁的自我介紹中說：“學習愛上帝愛自己並適當地愛他人......為家庭而努力是我的第一要務。”（Learned to love God and myself to properly love others... Working on my family is my priority...）
Rest In Peace 安息
What surprised me more was the comments and messages left by readers online , and certainly saddened me more
I think there must be more wounded out there who cannot step out of their shadows yet, who are too beaten and too tired to make comments here.
We really can't imagine.
I know many people were/aremore or less wounded by their relationships with their parents.
What can we say?
Nobody is perfect, including all parents. Some are worse than others.
我們能夠做的，就是改變自己 - - 特別是努力成為更好的父母。
What we can do is to change ourselves, to be better persons. - and try to be better parents if we have to.